What makes you a potential HIV victim among Indians

Here I will try to discuss some reasons behind Indian's are pulled into brothels abroad and in India. Every man is good in his nature but under certain circumstances pulled into brothel sex, which is the main source of HIV for Indians.

1) High Inclination towards sex
This happens due to number of circumstances that you grew up. You could be a victim of childhood sexual abuse by a major person in society. Normally childhood sexual abuse of children is widespread in Kerala in some areas. The main culprits are neighbors (whom your parents trust, when you are left with) or close relatives. They abuse children to do sexual acts before their marriage or getting an opposite sexual partner to meet their sexual urges. This becomes a Dracula type activity, then you too do the same thing to other children when you grow up. A highly untold activity or discussed in Kerala but a real threat in recent times for transmission of HIV to innocent children.

High impact of "Shakeela" type movies, porn magazines, videos available through various channels. In teenage days, children buy these and use as an aid to masturbate. Masturbation as such is a no risk activity, but regular masturbation can make you addicted to it. Masturbation also needs privacy, and the habit develops in privacy. But once the privacy is lost under certain circumstances, It will lead to sexual urge & anxiety. So if somebody is a habitual masturbator do not try to stop it abruptly. Masturbation also have a high "Guilt" content as most religions regarded it as SIN. Heavy masturbation in teenage days may lead  to (premature-ejaculation), a sexual malfunction which will affect your family life later.

2) Bigmouths Malayalees talking about sex
There is a saying that when two Kannadiga meet they speak about money (in terms of paise they saved because of their smart acts). When two Brahmins meet they speak about "Masala Dosa or Iruli Dosa" they ate or coffee they drunk recently. When two or more young Malayalee men meet they talk about girls & sex. There is a lot of Bigmouths in Malayalees talking always about sex & their adventures with women. Something like, they went for a "Lapdance" and stroked a prostitutes breast, Or had a sex with a prostitute Or how they did had sex with a colleague at work. The Expatriates discuss about massage parlors & brothels etc.. Beware of these people they could end you up in a brothel where the real thing happens. It's high time you avoid them. It's not sexual achievement is only the big achievement in life.

3) No normal interaction between Boys & Girls in Kerala
There is no normal type interaction between boys & girls in Kerala. All interaction were described as "Love Affair" or things like that. Normal interaction between boys & girls with proper supervision make them understand each other in a better way and not to be regarded as sex objects each other. Nowadays the situation is improving a lot.

4) No sexual education
Sex is a taboo in education and even teachers avoid chapters describing sexual activity even in High Schools. Instead we need determined teachers to educate high school children about Sex & Risks involved in recent times.

5) Malayalam Film Influence
All the malayalam film heros are "role models" for youth in Kerala. Mohanlal particularly portrayed characters with less morale inclined to having sex with prostitutes, also other leading actors in Malayalam. In teenage age, when people are influenced by films this becomes a problem in their normal lives.

6) Last but the least
Malayalees contribute most of the expatriate population in India. They live in many countries without their family to support them, and send $, Riyal, Dinar etc..etc..to support the living away family in India. When living alone for long times ( In Arab countries sometimes 3 to 4 years at a stretch or more till the contract finishes ) controlling one person's sexual urge is a big problem. Sex is one of the basic need of human being and cannot be substituted with money. If the person is having less willpower he is at the risk of brothel sex.

7) More opportunities to get prostitutes
In India it's very difficult to find a prostitute unless you are searching hardly for one. Even then you may find an unclean lady or a street type prostitute. It may be only easy to find them in Bombay, Delhi, Kalcutta where they have licensed brothels. But in advanced countries it's more of an organized activity with clean brothels and very young girls doing prostitution with the support of "Pimps". These Pimps have various tactics to get you into sex with their prostitutes sometimes promoting theirs girls are clean or had a recent medical check-up etc.. Sometimes they will scold you of having not enough courage to do the real act and turn you away. All these are their business tactics so you will fall as their prey. But they cannot guarantee a person is HIV infected or not, with the current testing methods available. It's impossible to test prostitutes everyday for STD's or HIV.

8) Exposure of body of women in their attire
In India women dress covering their body almost full. No mini or micro skirts. But when an Indian goes abroad for work he finds a lot of women's body exposed in modern dressing. Everything is almost visible which is erotic and very seductive. In this environment Indian men, in a course of time keeps a desire to have sex with them. But Indian worker is an Indian worker treated indifferently in all the modern countries. So his only solace is similarly dressed prostitutes in brothels.

9) Alcoholism
As per recent surveys and news reports alcoholism is increasing in a rampant manner across Kerala. From 1986 to 2003 the people who drink alcohol increased by 6%, a big jump in consumption. 2003 Onam celebration in one day Keralites drunk 80 million US$ worth liquor. All the bad grows by hand in hand so Smoking, Drinking, Prostitution, Gambling causing a lot of financial loss for Kerala. emotional problems, family distress, troubled children, crimes, suicides, loss of work, mental disease all can be the results of alcoholism and other bad things. Most of the brothel visitors had sex with prostitute, when they were drunk.

10) Sexual impotency
For some people sexual impotency is one reason they visit a prostitute. With their wife they are having problems in enjoying sex. The reasons could be unable to keep the erection, premature ejaculation, lack of intimacy and passion. So they get into prostitute where because of the fancy new prostitute gets over the impotency problem. Sometimes false beliefs as cure for a long standing health problem also people visit prostitute. Like having sex with a virgin will cure his STD or Back pain etc..



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